Saturday, June 29, 2013

IF ONLY!

We are defined by the decisions we make. Our life shapes the way we mould it. There comes a moment in our lives when we have to choose, which would decide our fate for the rest of our lives. 

Decision making is not that simple and can be a painful event. We don't want to be in such a position! Yet we find ourselves at crossroads, from where only one way we shall chose..the path to our making!


                         



The choices we make may not be the best, but should be perfect. Coz one cannot have everything in life...a lesson learnt!! But then how to identify what suits us perfectly? What is for us and what’s not? And amidst this a choice is made. A choice which scripts our future. What do we choose? A path that's hurdle less.. or a path less travelled! It’s said that if you don’t believe in your choices, you are bound to make a wrong decision. A decision which you might regret.
And there comes a moment when we wish If Only...I could change my decision. But by then, it’s too late! That moment has passed and whats left is the repercussion of the choice we made. 

We always have at least one If only desire within us...if only I could alter the choice I made...if only!! My life would b different...better perhaps..perhaps! We never know. And we might never know, coz that option was rejected. And we are left lamenting. That grudge we hold lifelong.



Life..goes on; even with the wrong choices we opt for! 
Live it..coz life never gives a second chance...If Only!

(PS : Special thanks to  +Karan Jain    for writing this  post! )

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Book Review - ‘The Ineligible Bachelors’

I happened to read a book gifted by my colleague.
Titled "THE (IN) ELIGIBLE BACHELORS" is a debut by writer +Ruchita Misra .The title of the book is as attractive as the cover...
The cover is very well designed and goes with plot of the book.
 

The story revolves around "Kasturi" who is the protagonist. So what is it about? Just another love story? Not really...It’s far more than that. It’s about FRIENDSHIP, LOVE, TRUST, FAMILY and a lot of twist and turns.
 
Kasturi is a MBA graduate, single and 24. Her mother wants her to get married to a well settled, rich, suitable guy, an arranged marriage to be precise. Her mother’s hunt for a son in law begins with Ads in the news paper, a profile on SHAADI.com. 
 
Soon Kasturi joins a company in Delhi. She makes new friends, ANANYA, a tomboy & VARUN, a nerd and a gossip monger. She continues to meet random guys in Delhi solely because she cannot say ‘NO’ to her mother and gives up to her emotional blackmail every time.
 
She meets a number of guys and is horrified with her experiences. Among all, she meets Purva who is a doctor, a shy and decent guy and a lot different from others. Although she never thinks about him  that way, he lands up every now and then to help her in difficult situations.
 
She finds her job very interesting. Although most of the time she keeps making PPT's. Story builds up when Kasturi falls madly in love with her boss Mr. RAJEEV MEHOTRA. Rajeev is young, energetic, intelligent and a very good looking Punjabi guy. The romantic dinner, hangouts, chit chats, messaging, conversations between the two keeps you holding on to the book.
 
 Kasturi reveals her relationship with Rajeev  to her family. Her mother disapproves Rajeev because he is not a Brahmin. The story takes a big turn where Kasturi is dumb founded. She is unable to take the most important decision of her life. Will she make the right decision? Does she get out of the chaos?
 
The book is very interesting and has some very witty one liners. One can easily relate to the story and it makes you glued throughout.
Vicarious writing style of the author made me realized that reading this book was time well spent.

Monday, June 3, 2013

First Rains!

Woke up a little late, looking out the clouds were grey,
Seems like rains are on their way,
This is just what I have been waiting for so long,
Reminds me of my favorite song..
"Pani Da Rang Vekh Ke, Akhiyaa Jo Anju Rul De!"
 
It rained....
The pitter patter of raindrops,
The thunderstorms,
The smell of rains (Petrichor)
The sound of clouds roar,
 
I feel so fresh,
I feel ecstatic,
The surrounding is so aromatic.
 
 
 
As I gaze at the sky when it rains,
As blood flows through my veins,
I wonder what makes Mother Nature so beautiful,
In spite of the world being so dreadful.
 
Another reason to have coffee,
Another reason to dance,
Another reason to romance...
 
Rains are not just droplets of water,
It's  a sign of change
A sign of growth,
With flowers blooming,
A bliss to earth..
 
And when it all stopped
There was silence all around,
A new day arrived,
With scorching Sun...
 
Perhaps, it's God's way of showing me "THATS LIFE SON!"