Monday, July 22, 2013

The Joy Of Giving..

What is that little thing which makes you happy and joyful?? Is it all the materialistic things like a new Cell, Camera, a Car etc.. May be they make you happy... but these are just momentary!! The real joy I feel ... is the joy of giving. They say God gave you two hands, one to take and the other to give whatever you feel is excess  to you. May be it is something which cannot be learnt and just comes from within.

This one incident I remember , when I was going back home from office. I reached near CST, I was attracted by the savor from nearby Vada Pao Center. I grabbed a Vada Pao and was about to leave to catch a local. Just about then a handicapped young man, stood in front of me and pleaded, "10 rupae de do saab , do  din se khana nai khaya". I was a little hesitant to give money  to this man ,because I wasn’t sure whether he will buy food or just waste it in some nuisance. For a moment I thought may be I should buy him something to eat, but then I gave 10 Rs  and said "Khana hi khana". He took the 10 Rs, went to the stall bought a Vada Pao with that 10 Rs. He looked at me and smiled. His smile was reflecting as if  "Look I haven’t wasted the money you gave and thank you for this".
This incident made me very happy, the joy of giving really can’t be expressed in words, it’s something to feel. Of course, only giving money to the needy, isn’t the only way. It’s about kindness, helpfulness, selflessness, service... Education for example is one little gift  that you can give to someone which can transform his life.
 
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Mother Teresa once quoted "Let us touch the dying, the poor, the lonely and the unwanted according to the graces we have received and let us not be ashamed or slow to do the humble work”. The question isn’t how much you give, its about how much love you put into giving!..
 
This video I came across on YouTube, made me cry and inspired me at the same time. A  chef-turned-social worker Narayanan Krishnan works for the most amazing social cause after quitting his job at Taj Hotel. Hope this video inspires you too!
 
                                         
 

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

"Fraandship" Wala Love!

Some of us have been through this. It’s like "More than Friendship, less than Love". You know him/her since ages, you talk regularly, you hangout, share your secrets, share your agonies, happiness, every little thing you come across.

But.... You are not lovers. You realize that it’s much better to be that way. You spend each day with complete freedom, frankness, no inhibitions and restrictions. Some people term it as "Friendationship". Friendship word may be too casual for this and relationship is not the kind of term to describe it justifiably. Its goes like we fight, we laugh, we talk life philosophies, annoy each other, but yet we always end up back together. People start to talk, ask questions and you assure that you are not lovers.


Not all friendship turns into Love. It only happens in movies and tales. I personally feel it’s a very selfless relation. You know the other person is there to stand by you, absolutely no commitments of any kind.
 
Of course there's always another  side to it, if one of them is jealous when the other falls for someone else. Irrespective of that, many of us might have experienced such a relation at some point of our life and would easily relate to this post.

 
PS: This write-up has nothing to do with my personal experience (in case you thought so ;)  )
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